Detoxicity: By Men, About Men, For Everyone
What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century? Detoxicity is an interview podcast designed to explore the many possible answers to that question The podcast will cover a wide range of topics from relationships to creativity, from psychology to sexuality with thoughtfulness, sensitivity, and humor. Detoxicity is hosted by radio personality and mental health/sexuality educator Mike Joseph.
Episodes

Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
DetoxPod 151: A Discussion About IPV (Intimate Partner Violence) With Micah & Stephanie
Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
Content warning: Graphic discussions about physical and emotional abuse, and suicide.
According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 3 women is a victim of physical intimate partner violence at some point in their life. Sadly, I don't think that's a surprising statitistic. What you might find surprising is that 1 in 4 men is a victim of physical intimate partner violence. I would imagine that a lot of intimate partner violence among men-particularly in a heteronormative framework-goes unreported because so many men are embarrassed to report it and, in many cases, are socialized to ignore or not recognize the signs of abusive behavior.
Back in Episode 141, we talked to Micah R, who shared his journey through everything from homelessness to his life as a transgender man. Unfortunately, shortly after our episode was released, Micah lost his brother Jeffrey to suicide. Now, Micah and his sister Stephanie are sharing their brother's story as someone who was involved in a toxic relationship fraught with emotional and sometimes physical abuse. This is a heavy conversation about heavy topics, but I really hope that folks-no matter their gender or the gender of their partner- listen and if they see themselves in any of the situations we discuss, evaluate their lives and relationships and do what they can to get into a better place.
If you are experiencing Domestic Abuse, please call 1-800-799-7233.

Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
DetoxPod 150 : Almar Reyes (Tech Exec, Dad)
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
I do most of the sourcing when it comes to finding guests for the show, but every once in a while a friend surprises me by saying "hey, I'd like to be a guest". That was the case with my dude Almar Reyes, who I've known for something going on twenty years via the internet. Almar is a Bay-Area based veteran of the tech world, and is most recently adjusting to life as an empty-nester after raising two kids. That forms the basis of our conversation, although we detour plenty along the way. Other topics we cover include everything from being a military brat to the reality of cultural minorities often being severely prejudiced against other cultural minorities. I'm really glad Almar hit me up, because he proved to be a fantastic interview! You can find him on most socials as AlmarSezStuff.

Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
DetoxPod 149 : Chris Loper (Coach/Author)
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
Chris Loper is a habit coach based in the Pacific Northwest. What is a habit coach, I bet you're asking. Well, listen to the episode and it'll all be explained to you :-) Chris is also a self-proclaimed adrenaline junkie and we talk about how his penchant for thrill-seeking led him down a bad path, only to come to a head after a near-death experience. His journey from there to here is also documented in a memoir, entitled Wood Floats and Other Brilliant Observations. Chris's most recent endeavor, Smart College Habits, combines academic and habit coaching to help students thrive in college. Addiction, recovery, living life lightly, it's all covered in this conversation. I hope you enjoy!

Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
DetoxPod 148: Dave Holmes (Writer/Actor/Pop Culture Obsessive)
Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
I am absolutely thrilled to welcome Dave Holmes to the podcast. You might know Dave as an MTV VJ and host of TRL, you might know him as an author (his memoir, Party of One, is excellent), you might be familiar with his work as an actor, podcaster, even as an advice columnist. Dave's relatability and his pop culture obsessiveness have contributed to a decades-long stint in the public eye. Our conversation covers everything from struggles with sexuality to wanting to build an empire for the future to living a full life with a chronic illness (in this case, diabetes). I quiz Dave about his obsession with running, meeting Huey Lewis, and much more. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did!
Find Dave on IG here.

Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
DetoxPod 147 : Bill Harrison (Therapist/Musician/Author)
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
Bill Harrison is a licensed therapist working in the Chicago area. He specializes in men's issues, and works primarily (although not exclusively) with creatives/people in the arts. Bill has also spent many years working as an artist himself. Prior to devoting himself to mental health, he was a successful gigging musician. Our conversation follows Bill's journey from traveling troubadour through his own mental health journey and ultimately deciding to help others for a living. We also talk a lot about Bill's book, "Making the Low Notes: A Life in Music", (also here), and how writing has helped him give voice to his feelings.

Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
DetoxPod 146 : Yawnyblew Returns
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
Wednesday Aug 30, 2023
Grammy nominated singer/songwriter YAWNYBLEW visited us for Episode 134, and folks enjoyed our conversation so much that I got several requests to bring him back. Well, what our listeners want, our listeners get! My second conversation with Yawny focuses on the ups and downs of the music industry and how he has struggled to maintain mental health practices due to the stress of having to survive as a working creative. Yawny and I also talk about his circle of male friends and how even in a private group it's hard to have those "real" conversations. We also discuss the need for life resets, which for Yawny is manifesting itself in a summer-long road trip.
You can find YAWNYBLEW on Instagram, or you can follow his podcast, BIIGGER THAN OUR DREAMS.

Wednesday Jul 12, 2023
DetoxPod 145 : Sonny Harding (Educator/Musician)
Wednesday Jul 12, 2023
Wednesday Jul 12, 2023
This episode features my friend Sonny Harding. He's based in the Atlanta area, and in addition to being a drummer and a fairly new Dad, he's also a high school teacher. Education is a profession that fascinates me, and I ask Sonny how he picked that as a vocation and we also talk about the generational divide that naturally exists between teachers and students. We also go into some depth about Sonny's Southern upbringing and common misconceptions that some of us Northeners (read: me) may have about people who live below the Mason/Dixon line. Those are just a couple of the topics we cover over the course of what I think is a very entertaining conversation. I hope you enjoy it!

Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
DetoxPod 144 : Tommy Mattera (Coach/Counselor)
Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
Hi everyone! This episode features counselor/therapist Tommy Mattera, who is based out in California. He specializes in men's work, helping men through issues with relationships, anxiety, depression and raising families. I'm endlessly curious about what drives mental health professionals to choose their work, and Tommy talks about the experiences that led him to pursue mental health as a vocation. We also talk about processing anger and uncomfortable feelings, and go deep on male loneliness and friendships and he discusses his own difficulty maintaining close relationships.
Find out more about Tommy here, and enjoy the episode!